That’s like saying a drug addict should never screw over their friends or family - addictions cause you to behave irrationally. I don’t want to sound helpless but it got to the point of being an addiction where I couldn’t really resist the urge to cap even if I knew I shouldn’t I would find myself doing it
And capping is always a potential issue for anyone who does it. It’s an extremely socially unacceptable sometimes illegal thing to do and even guys who can limit themselves to only doing it on rare occasions are still putting themselves at some risk.
But I hear your point
That is a mainstream notion. I disgree that porn(seeing women in a sexual way) is objectification. So do women not sexually objectify men?? When they view us in a sexual way?? I hate this whole “sexual objectification of women” nonsense. It is half-baked.
Objectification can go both ways it just means when you only or predominantly values someone for their sexual appeal over everything else.
It’s very misused because we all objectify people in certain contexts that doesn’t mean we don’t see them as anything more than a sex toy
But I’ve known a few guys who genuinely only seem to view women as cum dumps ( besides their family members of course) so it has its place
The plot thickens because a lot of women objectify themselves in many ways especially to sell content but you would hope that most guys still see them as being people with value besides their body
The more I think about it I don’t see capping as being objectifying but it can be a bit disrespectful if you’re putting your horny above their comfort
Well, despite how I may have sounded, I think we all here want the best for you, myself included.
I have lived in Japan, Korea, Hong Kong and my last 4 years out of State was China. Chinese eat a lot of pork, so the girls carry this nice extra baby fat. Come the summer, I don’t think these women have a sense of what too short shorts mean, but seeing that baby fat on those long legs (Chinese are generally the tallest of Asian women…GENERALLY…) and that little baby fat giggle on those round bubbles…bah BAH! I want to get those glasses with the camera affixed to them so I can cap incognito without fear of being busted. My eyes could be totally elsewhere while the camera is fixed on those legs. These techs are cheap in China, so if I ever go back, definitely gonna pick up a set!
When i spoke on a matter of the such, some dudes in here just clowned me. But i can relate fully. When i see a sexy women, or an irresistible ass it make my balls swell, like i came inside my nutts (excuse my french) i cant help but stare, but over the past couple of months my self control and will power have improved greatly, im actually writing a book. I cant tell you what and what not but I can say setting realistic goals for yourself in endeavors you have interest or maybe dont but would do pay you well to indulge in helps a lot with taming this beast. We are a certain community of men and a few women probably that just loves a womens anatomy. If i could sit somewhere and just have the sexiest women walk back and forth and do dick teasing shit in front of me, i would probably go broke paying to be in such an environment. (If you take my idea, please pay me) however how i see it, you’re boiling a stew that either you control or gets out of hand. I haven’t capped in almost a month, let alone left my girls house, she sees how hard my dick gets when i see a ass that i would love to get behind. But my girl has the fattest softest asses I’ve ever encountered, with great Pu$$ to match, I make her cum more because i cant go cap (life reasons) she doesn’t know i capp, but even with that being said, exercising till you’re exhausted is always a good outlet
I was recently advised on this topic as well. They really helped me out (post on my page).
What a few of them said was to “don’t go cold turkey, but instead do a little here and there until you don’t do it anymore”.
That’s helped and I haven’t capped. I definitely COULD had but the dreadful/perv-ish feeling I get afterwards is NOT worth the cap.
Keep ur head up though. You’ll be set free
See I don’t actually feel like a perv or creep… maybe I should but if I don’t perceive that she’s unsettled whatosever then if feels like a victimless pursuit and I know plenty of guys who are a hell of a lot more creepy on dating apps and with drunk women and being pushy so despite dating creep shots I would still go so far as to say the average guy I know is creepier than I am with women.
But I do feel like a loser when I feel like I have no self control, and when I wish I had approached cute woman rather than just capped her
That sounds like good advice, I’ve been trying to go cold turkey but today I slipped up and capped some hot milf who wearing a see through top who I swear was deliberately strutting around in front of me, but I didn’t hover around or follow her or anything, and I deleted it when I got home.
Hopefully over time the urges get more and more faint , good luck with it too
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Personally. I’d say you’re starting pretty well. You consciously deleted it when you got home. Instead of saving it which would in the longer run, fuel your capping. Good on you fr…
Thank ya, im doing pretty well and very proud of myself, I feel as us being men, when we make our minds up that’s what it is. So it’s up to you to make that decision on what you really want (i think)