Hello all. I discovered this website early 2023 and started capping around that time. Deciding this year that I’m quitting, but I’d like to share all that I’ve learned and experienced, for better or worse.
For context, I’m at a uni with 70%+ women. The things people post on here, I see on a day to day basis when I go to class. It’s pretty much candid heaven, and I’ve gotten plenty of caps. Not trying to take a candid at times is an exercise in self control.
With all this said, here’s what I’ve gathered
Don’t get carried away.
This is the absolute worst thing you can do with a hobby like this. I started with just capturing ass in my day to day life to actively going to stores in my free time just to take some. The adrenaline rush gathered from doing something so socially taboo is unmatched but in the end, it really isn’t worth it, especially going great lengths like following these women. When you get carried away, you’re more likely to get caught. This leads me to my next point
Getting caught is the worst thing ever
I got caught this past summer at Walmart. It was a fucking awful experience. Took a careless cap of a woman’s ass and was greeted by a security guard on my way out, who eventually brought me to the security room and talked to me. Told me other men were doing these sexually perverse things and that I wasn’t the first and that I wasn’t gonna go to j*il, but that’s where I’m heading if I get comfortable doing stuff like that. Eventually got a criminal trespass warning and now I can’t go there until 2025. I was sweating up a storm, I felt embarrassed, and it felt like I had a huge knot in my stomach. Not a situation I’d want anybody to be in.
This hobby causes a lot of unnecessary stress
Stress about…
If someone saw you, especially someone you know
If that store camera saw you,
How people would react if they found out
If your body language is giving it away
If someone found these pictures
Legal trouble you could be in
It’s just not worth it. I’d be much more carefree and happy had I not started this.
Just my .2 cents. I’m leaving this behind me. Anyone considering if they should stop capping, you probably should.
I agree with everything you said and I couldn’t have word it better. I wanted to leave this shit behind 2023.
But my impulsiveness gets the better of me. That’s why I’m in the process of either finishing up storing everything in a drive or just flat out delete everything like I have done in the past. I’m just addicted to seeing a ASS In motion and seeing it move on repeat. “Take a picture it would last longer” literally. I have to stop this shit. I’m working on self control.
The stress is real. I never got busted so hard as that, but a security guard has told me to stop filming and I was pretty spooked by that, and quit for a while. Ironically I just came back today
You’ll get over the worry and maybe one day you’ll see an opportunity and think to yourself, yeah, I’m gonna cap that… and it’ll be back to good times again.
Its true it can be tough out there. Thats why i ignore anything below an 8 for cap. If its lower than 8 not worth the risk just enjoy in person. If its an 8+ with good situational conditions, then its a go! That way you dont over fill with subpar content. Everything has to be a banger or it pales in comparison to the other booties ive capped. Stay strong!
Getting caught does suck! Some guys just don’t think about the consequences until it’s too late. Thanks for the words of wisdom and I hope you are able to find peace in 2024.
In your case, if your regret or desire to stop is simply due to the fact that you were caught and caused you a momentary emotional shock, I suggest that you take advantage of this moment to reflect and create new habits and distance yourself little by little, knowing that you, like any straight man, You have a desire for women and that will never change, don’t be hard on yourself, just accept it as a lesson and wake up to new things, good luck.
Ive been feeling the same way, im done with this. I was recently caught aswell and it really made me stop and think ‘what am i doing?’
Ive been taking candids since highskool and it already ruined a past long term relationship. I stopped for a couple years then found this forum and eventually i jumped back in. Stupidest thing ive ever done.
But the important thing here is to learn from our mistakes… no matter how many times it takes. I havent capped in 3 weeks and i hope i never do again. I dont think candids are inherently bad but i think the adrenaline that comes with taking them can breed an unhealthy obsession/addiction.
I hope you find peace and remember to be forgiving with yourself. No one can empathize with you more than yourself, especially when you got issues like these.
Having said that, why are you even still here. There’s no exit interview on a forum lol.
Are you looking for validation, or a hug?
This is common ordinary fud on the way out the door
Listen man, every day someone new runs into this forum and decides to delve into this lifestyle. I just don’t want people going down the same path I did and making the same mistakes I did. The negativity really isn’t necessary.
It’s hard to stop capping. It’s an addiction - with great rewards.
What I wonder about: We often read about guys getting caught at Walmart, … - do most of you only cap in stores? We (in Europe) have great pedestrian zones in Downtown that are capping paradises. Hiding in the masses reduces the risk of getting caught - and you can get awesome caps in best lightning settings … Avoiding stores in general also means to pause outdoor capping in the winter, which is a very welcome recreation break before the “summertime adrenaline rush” kicks in again.
I tried capping, even got some good pictures. But deleted right after because I have friends that are confortable going trough my phone and vice versa. So currently, It doesn’t work for me, plus my town is small I only got to do it when I had to go out of town. I could have some excuses, photography is my hobby, even tho I’m an amateur.
But man I will definetely still do it. For now I just wanna do my best to support the community. And If you like it, just find a way to do it with less risk, go to public areas where they don’t have cameras, I’m sure plenty of people already postes safety “tips and tricks” here.
