Scenario: how would you react if a female family member would get capped on the street?

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Earlier today I had a bit an unnecessary aggresive reaction in a topic when I spoke about the fictive scenario that I would witness someone capping my sis on the street. To be honest, just only the thought already made me angry. So I’m doing a pretty hypocrite job of posting girls here who no doubt also have brothers, fathers.

How is that for you guys? Would you be cool/accepting if you would see someone capping your sister on the street?

And are there any fathers here with girls of 18 years or older? I can imagine that’s not easy.

A lot of times I’m guilty of looking at a woman on the street like she is nothing more than eye-candy (to say it very black & white). But when I reflect on the fact that they probably all have male family members that care deeply for them, I realise that’s just my brain oversimplifying. I guess it’s best not to think about that too much, because today I felt guilty for every single girl that I posted here. It feels evil towards her, but that is probably also because I would feel almost obliged to protect someone like my sis against similar “evil” if I saw it happening to her.

Curious to hear how this is for you guys. Is doesn’t have to be a sister, maybe you have a mother that is still relatively not-old and considered attractive by the average man. As long as it is a female family member

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yep thats because youve perverted your mind enough to view all women as lustful objects..

no doubt all of us here have an underlying issues althought we all brush it off because ‘its better than porn’ ..

though this hobby is better than porn, its honestly destroying us because when were in public, dont we all look for asses to cap? arent we all magnets to fat asses?

i love this site but man i gotta chill

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I suppose its a lot like a thief having something stolen from them.

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That’s called candid guilt. Most new shooters experience this cause we know its morally wrong thing to do. People that can no longer get their itch scratched from normal candids and resort to groping, butt swiping, ejaculating on women. Voyeurism.

Its not normal candids that would piss me off, its finding a female family member being a target of these monsters that use “candid grope” as a gateway to commit SA.

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Yeah id say its like checking out a dudes gf while he is at restroom or right next to her. The karma of it all could come back. So have you done a candid before??? Then dont be mad if it happened to your gf or female relative. As long as your intentions are on admiration and objectification at most then you should be good. But if u have stalker vibes then obviously you wouldnt like that karma. As the saying goes “we’re all doing the same thing with our eyes just with a camera”. Sometimes you’ll have to stop candids to reset your karma basically. That could take seasons to years.

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Yeah i love this site too and gonna give it a break soon..about to do 6mths without seeing candids. Give it all summer to see whats in view.lol

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It’s called objectification. We tend to not view these females as humans with family and feelings but rather look at them as a sexual body for our own pleasure. That is one of the moral conflicts we might encounter from time to time when we really think about our lust for women in any context not only candids.

It’s hypocritical and we have to accept it, most if not all of us would also get angry if we knew some family member was getting creeped by someone else, just like we do with others. Whoever says otherwise is coping or just don’t care about their family.

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I wouldnt care honestly. Im a sexual being in a sexually repressed world. Thinking girls are hot and taking pics of them isnt evil to me lol and why get mad over something you have 0% control over?

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An ancient Japanese saying goes: Don’t ask a question you don’t want to know the answer to. :grinning_face:

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I wouldnt give a shit I do it all the time to theirs lol

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That’s a bit harsh to be fair, I definitely don’t view all women als lustobjects, it’s just that when I spot a chick so beautiful that she instantly triggers that sex-area in my brain, that in that moment I don’t wonder wat her IQ is, what she does for a career and what her political views are.

If I saw all women as lust objects, I would never feel guilty about posting pics.

I can’t judge if it’s better than porn, probably it is, cause porn is real messed up. But personally I had a few encounters in the last couple of weeks where I saw a beautiful woman, and instead enjoying that moment, I was disappointed that I didn’t cap. Addiction is always bad

@TomiJon damn man, that’s so messed up.. they should just take revenge on him by stripping him completely nude, face visible for everyone to see, and then make a nice on-line collection for him.

@Sitn_bench yeah I feel you man, I really try to be a good human being. Some girls dress do absurdly sexy that you can safely say that they don’t mind the attention at all, in some cases it really isn’t projection anymore haha. But a lot of girls just want to look good, if I think about my topic of that bikini-girl for example.. she probably didn’t mind getting some looks on the beach. But I have no idea how old she is. 18, 19, that’s super yng in my opinion, I’m not sure yet if I should keep all her photo’s online were she is almost naked for the eye. Like I said she probably didn’t mind some eyes at the beach, but that’s different than having a topic with more than ten-douzend views where dudes have probably jerked off as well, no way she ever wanted that.

@bomdiadobrasil yeah true, but WE do that, it’s not that they make us. Although some dudes really believe that, like those idiots that blame a chick for being r*ped because she was dressed to nice. But that’s good to hear man, I guess as long as we’re willing to protect the women close to us, then they are not completely on their own :grin:

@Tiny_Spy bro what, making pics of random people is super weird. Try to do that with men, very visible, not trying to hide it. I’m curious how long you can do that before you receive the first punch. They won’t just think “oh well, someone wanted to make a photo of me, I have no control over that so I won’t get mad”.

@Laromp14 but I do want to know the answer. I didn’t expect some reaction that made me feel better, I just wanted to have an open discussion about it

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I didnt say its not weird i just said its not evil. Also i obviously meant candidly dude. Genuinely hope you figure out this dilemma though. I honestly think you just need to own that you like doing this and understand that someone else doing this (hypothetically) to one if your family members isnt much different from you. (Just another guy trying to bust a nut) or cut cold turkey if you really feel that guilty and hypocritcal about it. But even if you quit you’ll always be stopping yourself anyway so this is always apart of you regardless.

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How can you straight up say it isn’t evil? You are not the “victim”, so of course it feels only fun for you. Imagine if gay dudes followed you around and posted pics or your ass on some forum. Not evil at all?

Might be true but I homestly say with pride that I wouldn’t let that happen to the women that are important to me when I see it happening. And if I ever get into a confrontation with a dude, then I will genuinely be apologizing for capping his girlfriend/his sister, not to minimize the conflict but because you should apologize for doing that

EDIT: sorry if I sound hostile, I appreciate your input!

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Yeah you sound incredibly hostile honestly

And yeah if a bunch of gay dudes took candids of me and posted me online to jerk off to id be incredibly flattered honestly lmao.

Oh hey dont jerk off either or you’ll go to hell. its evil

EDIT: you dont sound hostile you just sound really emotional over this honestly, thats why im saying this probably isnt good for you. You should quit

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@Tiny_Spy not the sharpest tool in the shed are you, I said I felt evil for posting those topics. That is indeed an opinion. You’re the one that follows that up with factual statements about me, about how I am too emotional or something and with the literal sentence “You should quit”. Because that’s just factual, right?!?!

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I sound like someome who takes opinions for facts quite often? You’re litterally saying people are objectively evil for taking candids and acting like im crazy for thinking otherwise.. you seem incredibly un self aware and honestly very naive. I dont even mean this in a rude way but you dont really sound like you’re over 18 from the way you talk.

There are families being bombed and killed needlessly all around the world, people being made to suffer just for more profits. Thats evil, if you really think you’re in that same category because you took a pic of a girl in her bikini you’re crazy lol

You seem to see the world and morality as black and white, but i see it more as grey.

And yess i made a cheeky joke about masturbation, but its only because you sound like some kind of youth pastor demonizing us for candids and liking womens sexy bodies lol best of luck dude

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My fav threads are the ones made by dudes who obviously got hit by that post nut clarity.

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I feel like since I cap, I know the mannerisms of guys trying to do it so I’ll do my best to keep my girl for example on the opposite side of the “sketchy man” etc. At the end of the day, I feel like as cappers, we shouldn’t be able pick and choose when capping is or isn’t okay, because we all know we will go for the risky shot if it’s worth it, regardless the circ(u)mstances.

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If the guy did it right I wouldn’t know. In that scenario it honestly wouldn’t bother me judge me if you will.

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Man, you are a kind and good person. I used to feel anxious like you and even thought I was sick. But now I understand that the general values ​​of society are not necessarily applicable to everyone. As far as candid is concerned, I have not hurt anyone, even if I use it to masturbate or post it on the Internet, so what? Firstly, the person involved usually doesn’t know they are being filmed unless they are spotted. Secondly, unless she is a star or entertainer, a normal random person in public, wearing whatever clothes she chooses to wear, and being filmed and posted on a porn site, even if her face is shown, no one will care or recognize her. There are thousands of bitches on the Internet, not to mention the AI-generated pictures. I explained so much to facilitate rational dialogue in your heart and understand your own intentions, rather than blindly following the values ​​​​instilled by the president and feeling guilty. This applies to all levels. By the way, I am an Asian living in Taiwan. I have been candid for more than ten years. This is part of my daily life.