Hi guys, I need your help. Over the last year I have begun taking creep shots. At first I thought it was just a fun thing I could do if the moment was right and then not think about it much after. But gradually, I think it has become an addiction. I now feel the need to go out and look for opportunities, and I feel like its taking me down a dangerous road where I could get caught and potentially ruin my future. I often have these little turning points every few months when I delete all of the pics Iāve taken, but then I just end up waking up the next day and wanting to do it again. You guys are literally the only people I can ask help from. What do I do? How do I stop? Every time im horny its like all my morals are thrown out the window. I like to think I respect women, but how could I say that when I do this kind of shit? Is there a more healthy way to release my sexual urges or channel them? Please if someone has been through what im going through tell me how you dealt with it. I hate the person I have become since I began this, but I just canāt resist the urge. I live every day like a guilty man, and besides those few seconds of thrill I get when i take a pic, I feel ashamed if myself
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Iād suggest two things - either get in deeper or defeat your dragon by getting yourself some Jordan Petersen!
Stop deleting, save more files, get a big hard drive or something. Maybe help stop the urges more. Only other option here is replace the addiction with another.
ā¦coming from one with many addictions!
Itās all I was able to do!
JP is like a clinical psychologist but speaks like a modern philosopher like Socrates (regardless of the current climate and his reactions) that has a huge amount of content like speeches where he gets into the minute details of how the brain functions and sums things up with like, āyou want it fixedā¦āclean your roomā and if you know your doing something wrong, ājust stopā
He gets deep by comparing your decisions to slaying the dragon in stories and how we are exactly like our ancestors just turned our head in other directions.
Good luck!
Thank you
Iām the same. Cannot help it. I spot ass from a mile away and stalk that shit. Even when with partner itās dangerous but I canāt stop. Only way I can see is leave mobile phone in vehicle or donāt take it out
Leaving my phone at home might be a good idea
I know what you mean 100%. The only way to quit is to quit. It is hard, but you will feel even stronger when you realize you dont āneedā to do it. Addiction sucksā¦ I know believe meā¦ Long storyā¦but if you feel like its messing with you then yeah bro, time for a change.
Thanks bro
Iām so sorry, man. Quitting creep shooting is incredibly hard to do in the current year. I would say that you should avoid places where temptation will hit, but women dress like whores everywhere you go. Itās also unrealistic to avoid places like the supermarket just because you donāt want to get tempted.
Therapy might help.
Good pointā¦maybe OP can elevate from using a phone camera to a a DSLR and turn the addiction into a hobby.
Subjects seem more comfortable being photographed at a distance by someone with a professional looking set up.
Thereās also the added benefit of using the camera to shoot wildlife or other non-pervy subjects.
Dude, Iāve been there. Iāve been shooting for years, trust me when I say I feel exactly what youāre talking about. The only thing that has helped me over the years to slow down and not have as much of an urge to do it, is the time. The older Iāve gotten, the less effort and time Iāve been willing to put in to doing, especially going out of my way to find the opportunities. Eventually youāll just start telling yourself ānah I donāt feel like wasting all that time trying to find shit to shoot todayā. With that said, if the opportunity presents itself on its own while Iām out running errands, I wonāt hesitate.
You should also keep in mind and tell yourself as long as youāre not violating there privacy by like shooting up their skirts or stalking them, youāre not doing much wrong. Shooting something that is in a public setting your able to see with your own eyes is not illegal. Morally however, thatās your own battle, and only time will get you mature enough to not have that urge to waste your time looking for it anymore.
Only way you can get in trouble is if you are not reading a situation clearly. Examine your surroundings and make a decision whether you can get a candid. If you canāt, keep the phone in your pocket. Restraint in the right situations will keep you from going off the rails.
But weāve all been there, sometimes you just have to take a break and it will all work itself out.
Iām in the same boat. And have done the same things trying to quit! I have taken pics a few times, without much success. And I keep coming back to this site ans similar sites, after pledging to quit. A friend of mine took me to his church. I spoke with the pastor. he did not judge me, but introduced me to some other guys that have gone through porn addiction and beat, with the help of God. He is real, and wants to help. He need to seek Him out. Iām going back to try and find a relationship with God through Jesus Christ. He is the only one that can help you make a permanent change!
Some versus he showed me that lead to path walking with Jesus Christ:
Romans 3:-21-26:
21 But now the righteousness of God without the law is manifested, being witnessed by the law and the prophets; 22 even the righteousness of God which is by faith of Jesus Christ unto all and upon all them that believe: for there is no difference: 23 for all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; 24 being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus: 25 whom God hath set forth to be a propitiation through faith in his blood, to declare his righteousness for the remission of sins that are past, through the forbearance of God; 26 to declare, I say, at this time his righteousness: that he might be just, and the justifier of him which believeth in Jesus.
Ephesians 2:4-9:
4 But God, who is rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us, 5 even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ, (by grace ye are saved;) 6 and hath raised us up together, and made us sit together in heavenly places in Christ Jesus: 7 that in the ages to come he might shew the exceeding riches of his grace in his kindness toward us through Christ Jesus. 8 For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: 9 not of works, lest any man should boast.
Romans 10:8-13
8 But what saith it? The word is nigh thee, even in thy mouth, and in thy heart: that is, the word of faith, which we preach; 9 that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. 10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. 11 For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed. 12 For there is no difference betw33n the Jew and the Greek: for the same Lord over all is rich unto all that call upon him. 13 For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.
Good luck and may God bless you. Find a good church and a mentor you can trust! Your post helped me! I hope my reply helps you!
I appreciate your self reflection but I must say that I disagree. The only thing that slows me down is that it is time consuming and the possibility of getting caught. If you donāt shoot upskrt it isnāt illegal so that canāt ruin your future if you only capture leggings and jeans. No upskrt shots mean police canāt do anything about it. Yes itās time consuming but if you get a few good shots once a week letās say, it will be enough to keep you satisfied. This is addicting but itās fun, girls wear what they wear and show off. I saw on tiktok a girl took a photo of a guy in target saying omg I need to come here more often and the comments were filled with girls having no problem and talking about how heās hot and how they wish their local target had guys like that etc. But if they saw a guy post a girl the same way theyād all call him a creep. Like??? Donāt feel guiltily just enjoy getting captures, save them all on a hardrive and donāt get overly confident where you get called out.
we Here for you brotha Iām The same way until a fat ass passes me by then I go right back 
Just check out women without shooting. Treat it like a first hand experience sex show. If you want candid content you can always find it online. I know a few people who also found ways to privately jack off while doing so.
Itās an addiction, that I can tell you. But Iād much rather be addicted to candid filming hot girls than alcohol or some other shit.
With that being said, I have very bad days too. Thatās when either no good ass comes my way no matter how actively I look for it, or when I keep missing one good opportunity after another either because Iām chickening out or because timing doesnāt match up. Or a combination of all three. I also have a problem when they all wear dresses because itās too hot outside and I just canāt go for that kind of crap because thatās where serious trouble will start.
Today was great though, they just stumbled in front of my lense just like that in no time. Those are the good days when I go home happy and have some fun with my catch!
Enjoy candid filming whenever you feel safe and comfortable to do so.
Thanks guys. Lmao honestly expected this to be the last place to find support. But its obvious that the moral dilemma of this activity is felt amongst a lot of us. Based on ur experienced and suggestions, I think I wont just stop cold turkey, but I will contain my addiction by limiting it to certain times during the week. This way I still have an outlet, but its controlled. And hopefully, Iāll slowly cut down like that
Iāve gotten caught like 4 times bro they literally love the attention Iām not saying to keep going but thatās just my experience by the end of the day you itās just pics it is what it is if you keep doing it youāll get over it lol
Keep going strong my boy